GOOD MANNERS

Mom always said, "Mind your manners." You've got to smile about that one. Why is it we often forget to do it? Here are three event related ideas (of course) that are extremely mannerable:

1. Send thank you notes to everyone who attends your special event (more importantly, formal events). If necessary, use a guest book so that you will have a record of all who attended. Don't just send thank you notes to people who bought a gift for you--instead, send the notes to all to show your appreciation of their coming out to celebrate your special day!

2. Welcome your guests. Always have a "door greeter" to smile, greet, and usher your guests in. Depending on the size of your party you may greet your guests at the door--this is especially wonderful when you are hosting many first time guests, parties of 20 or less, and hosting in your home. It may be more appropriate to have someone else greet if it's a larger party so you may mingle with your guests after they have arrived.

3. Finally, make sure guests are taken care of....provide food, beverages, fun, games, music, toiletries, everything and then some....including designated drivers/taxis when liquor is served.

Three simple ideas, you will be the talk of the town, and Mom will be proud.

-KW